*Aerk* 20 student... science type *laurac* 30/female/postal clerk and grad student, daily IRC I think people want to express themselves, they are just afraid to > why do you think they feel more comfortable on IRC? cause it isn't face to face and the other person can be more of your fantasy strange guys hit on me all the time > just because they know you are female? yeah > what do you think of that? actually even women hit on you I guess it bothers me a little, but not all that much I mean you tell them you aren't interested and they don't bother you anymore > have you ever been propositioned for net.sex? lots of times at least once every couple days > why do you think people proposition you so much? cause they know I am female *laurac* I met soemone not over irc, but through my local net that I had net.sex with before we met, once we did meet we hated each other -> *laurac* why did you hate each other? *laurac* he didn't like my looks and I couldn't stand how he acted -> *laurac* Why did you have net.sex with him? *laurac* it seemed right at the time..it wasn't something we jumped into -> *laurac* you had kown him before hand? *laurac* we talked about 6 hours a day for about 6 weeks before hand *laurac* I don't think I could have known anyone better -> *laurac* were you looking for a commitment from him? *laurac* we both were actually -> *laurac* what happned after you met face to face? did your net relation suffer? *laurac* yes *laurac* our meeting was awful, very tense *laurac* he thought I liked him, I was just trying to have a good time -> *laurac* so you wern't looking for a relationship? just a good time? *laurac* we talked afterwards for a couple weeks, then we got into a huge fight about his ex and we have decided not to talk for a while *laurac* no, I was looking for a relationship, but when I could tell that wouldn't work out I thought we could still have a nice evening as friends *laurac* all the talking we did over then net, we couldn't talk face to face so well