safe, but I don't see the point...no real human contact. Not my cup of tea. I like messing around with 'horny' guys minds -- I can just picture them next to the screen with their hands in their pants yes physically is not gratifying but mentally is quite amusing You don't have to think about irrelevant stuff like "do I look right" and "this girls is ugly" and second, you can hide behind your nick You only have to imagine someone on the other end.. It's never going to be right anyway, so why bother thinking of someone ugly when she actually can be gorgeous? it is anonymous... noone even has to see your face, mush less know your name... Eugor, yet, anonymous and arousing! Many of the inhibitions are dropped... The words are enough. fear of being turned down... hmmm... All I have to do is get a man to tell me that he is aroused and masturbating, and I immediately become aroused