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Re: My boyfriend wants me to QUIT QUIT QUIT



In article <4mi7ia$pbg@newsbf02.news.aol.com>, pangk@aol.com says...
>
>  Very simple girl. A woman who smokes makes a 2 out of a 10!
>The hell with the cancer risk., Who wants to kiss a woman who smells 
like
>a stale ash tray? Or a skid row bum! If she can't control such an
>obviously
>destructive need, how can she hold herself out as reliable marriage
>material?
>It's much easier to quit smoking than to be a good partner in a 
marriage.
>If
>I were her boyfriend, I'd move on to a woman who had better control of 
her
>life and showed less dependency and propensitry to be barefoot and
>dependent.
>  
>   Of course  if the genders were reversed, I'd sah HE was a poor 
prospect
>and advise HER to look for better genetic material.as well.




	I dislike people who smoke.  It does not matter what the gender 
is; thus I agree with you, but also, what would happen if she, the 
smoking girlfriend, was pregnant? The baby is by far the most innocent 
victim.  
	Who would want to kiss, talk to, or stand next to someone who is 
smoking, especially if that someone was your loved one.  I for one would 
just walk a far distant away from the smoker because I simply can't stand 
the smell and I don't want my lungs to die on me so soon.
	You were right about suggesting her boyfriend to move on to 
another woman.  I certainly would leave my mate if he wouldn't stop 
smoking.  It's just not worth it. 
	To me, being able to quit smoking, especailly after years of 
cigarett abuse, shows the strenght and goodwill of an individual.  I 
understand that quitting something, especially things you like to do 
is very difficult.  But if the girlfriend respected yourself and others, 
she would have listened to her boyfriend and quit smoking altogether.  
I'm proud to say that my dad, after over 20 years of smoking, had quit 
about 9 years ago.  After constant hearing complaints from my mother, 
siblings and I, he decided to quit forever, and I have never seen him 
with a single cigarett since.  As long as the girlfriend wants to quit, I 
believe she can.

					Hue 




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