Five month has passed, and only to this point when CBS offered full apology then some one cries for professionalism, gentle manners! It is, very professional and mature to downplay "immature" students' role, since in this way, it is perfect to show how good they are! If it was not for those "immature" students, played in a non-professional nor gentlman's way, CBS would never apologize, that is certainly for sure. The only thing I can say about this kind of mentality is, they are "infight specialist", or "nei4 zang4 nei4 hong2, wai4 zang4 wai4 hong2". The cries to perfect the operations done by "immature" students in protest CBS's mub-slinging on all Chinese in this country seem no less admirable than the courage of the students, but don't you think it comes a bit too late? It's been five months since the CBS Incident Committee has been calling around for help, ESPECIALLY professional help. Where were these perfectionists then? It is perfectly commendable to strive for perfection, who would not? However, when I hear these lecturing words like "why can't do it in a more gentlemen way -- it make you look more professional?" at the moment when almost all work has been accomplished. I can't help but to recall the doubters' cries at the beginning of this campaign (five months ago!) such as "who are WE? We can't fight CBS!" Perfectionism has been used many times before by Chinese as an excuse for inaction when facing with discrimination, for fearing of losing. Fortunately, the members of the CBS-IC didn't take this kind of "wiseman's lessons", and THAT started off the course on a new direction and eventually won. In fact, what CBS-IC has done are not only doing research on data related to the issue (we Chinese have been recognized by the world as excellent in research study) and sending protesting letters around (which we have learned in recent years), but also daring to confront the corporate leaders of CBS News face-to-face and to argue with them. It was the sharp challenges of Xiao Dong that put the CBS News' president off the balance. Moreover, it was this kind of straightforward communication which made CBS News to truly understand our jenuine feelings. One of the weakness of Chinese in communicating with other people in this country is unwillingness to share our true feelings with them. We have been used to play smart, stay quiet, and behave polite. How much was the success these our "old traits" in fighting against discriminations? Very little. To reach to other people's heart, we have to speak from our heart. We feel that the slanderous CBS program has defamed everyone of us and we are very angry about this, why hide it?! Another "old" habit of our Chinese, which has defeated ourselves many times before, is to fight among ourselves with more zeal than we do in protecting our community. One factor for the success of this time in protest against CBS News is that many Chinese organizations work together and speak as one voice. I had wished that those "internal-fighters" would learn something from it. It's sad that some still haven't. Mi Mi Sr. %%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%% % Mr. Mi Mi, Sr., Coordinator of CBS Incident Committee % % Sign on/off at listserv@ifcss.org, with mailbody as: % % sub fcbs-l Firstname Lastname, or signoff fcbs-l % % Post: fcbs-l@ifcss.org ftp//ifcss.org/ifcss/Legal/cbs % $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ $ Please make contributions payable to $ $ IFCSS/CBS Incident Fund, and mail it to $ $ Mr. Frank Chen / CBSIC $ $ 361 Ogden Avenue $ $ Jersey City, NJ 07307 $ $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$