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Subject: Formidable Foes
Srimate SrivanSatakopa Sri Vedanta Desika Yatindra Mahadesikaya nama:
Formidable Foes
My 11year-old son Shriram is not on speaking terms with his friend, the
neighbour's boy. I found this puzzling, because Shriram usually has to be
dragged away from the neighbour's, where he spends all his waking hours, but
for the short time required for his daily chores. When I sought to ascertain
the reasons for his sudden change of heart, my son told me that the boy had
become an "enemy". Some minor misunderstanding was obviously the cause and I
dropped the matter there. However, the term he had used-- "enemy"-- rather a
strong word to describe a tiff between boys, stuck to my mind and set off a
train of thought.
The Sanskrit word for Enemy is "Shatru". Surprisingly, this word and its
equivalent, "Ripu", appear to be extremely popular with poets, if one were to
go by the number of times the words occur in one single work, viz., Srimad
Ramayanam. I found, to my astonishment, that there were no less than 445
mentions of the words, attesting to their widespread usage.
We make enemies galore all through our long lives, wittingly and unwittingly,
on the personal and official fronts, due to our action or inaction. Some of
these enmities are temporary (like my son's), mere storms in a tea cup, and are
cleared in an hour, a day or at best a week. There are some however, with whom
we remain estranged for life, for some reason or the other. Though "Enmity" is
perhaps a strong term to use for strained personal relationships, during the
period of estrangement, the feelings between the individuals concerned run so
high, that they are perhaps no less than those affecting nations at war.
It might perhaps surprise you to find Shastras emphatically declaring that the
maximum damage and hurt to us is caused not by external enemies, but by
ourselves. We are our own worst enemy, responsible for our own downfall, says
the Gita -
"Aatma eva aatmano bandhu: Aatma eva ripu: aatmana:"
It is our mind, plagued by innumerable desires and ambitions, that leads us in
paths of destruction-the role of external factors in this is much less
significant than that of the Mind, which we call our own. While a clear mind,
unattached to sensual pleasures, is the best friend a man could boast of,
leading him to higher and higher spiritual planes, a mind muddied by desire and
craving is the worst foe he should fear, says Sri Ramanuja in his commentary.
The Mind is verily the reason for both our continued bondage and liberty, says
Sri Vishnu Puranam-"Mana eva manushyaanaam kaaranam bandha mokshayo:". The
Geetaacharya reiterates the concept of Mind being our best friend and worst
foe, telling us that one who has full control over his mind finds it his most
beneficial relative, while one with a wayward mind finds it his sworn enemy,
pulling him down constantly-"Anaatmanastu shatrutve varteta aatmaiva shatruvat".
It is for this reason that the Shruti too calls the Mind the most terrifying of
all foes-"Bheeshmo hi mana:". This is confirmed by another Upanishad, which
terms the Mind the greatest of our enemies-"Mana eva jagat sarvam, Mana eva
mahaa ripu:"
Which specific emotion thrown up by the mind makes it our enemy? This
particular question is asked of Yudhissttira by the Yaksha, in the famous
"Yaksha Prasnam"-"Ka: Shatru: durjaya: pumsaam?" Not merely an enemy, but an
unconquerable one at that? Replies the wise Dharmaputra-"It is none other than
anger"-"Krodha: sudurjaya: shatru:". Fury and rage cause such incalculable
damage, that they could easily be categorised as our worst enemies, killing us
from within. Here is another quote from Srimad Ramayanam, telling us what a
powerful foe anger is-
"Krodha: shatru: shareerasttho manushyaanaam Dvijottama!"
The Mahopanishad lists yet another emotion as our principal foe-pride and
arrogance. No other foe harms us as much as Ahankaaram, says the Upanishad-
"Ahankaara vasaat aapat, ahankaara vasaat duraadhaya:
Ahankaara vasaadeehaa, na ahankaaraat paro ripu:"
Srimad Ramayanam shows us another adversary, which pushes us down into the
dumps and ensures that we never lift our head-"shoko nasayate sarvam, naasti
shoka samo ripu:" Sorrow and despair are our worst enemies, as they destroy
hope and aspiration that form the basic fabric of the human mind. Many are the
people who have taken their own lives or at least attempted to do so, prompted
by depression, dejection and despair. If a person of phenomenal mental strength
like Sri Mythily, who could stand abduction, imprisonment and harassment at the
hands of Rakshasis, was driven to contemplate suicide, then nothing more need
be said about the damage potential of despair.
Sri Nammazhwar lists not one, but five foes that every person has to contend
with. These are none other than our five faculties, the Panchendriyaas, which
constantly keep us under their control and torment us day and night without any
let. These faculties are especially cruel on those who tread the spiritual
path, says Azhwar-"Vinnulaar Perumaarkku adimai seivaaraiyum serum iympulangal
ivai". Azhwar is so enraged at these horrid in-dwelling enemies, that he calls
them "van kayavar". And there is another list of six adversaries-"Shat
Ripu"-viz., Kaamam, Krodham, Moham, Lobham, Madam and Maatsaryam-which are
again responsible for the downfall of those without sense-control.
Even one's wife and son are said to be one's foes, under certain circumstances.
With apologies to women readers, here is the adage which tells us that a
beautiful wife is a man's enemy-"Bhaaryaa roopavati shatru:"-- and so too is a
son who is good for nothing-"Putra: shatru: napumsaka:".
How do you deal with your enemies?
Srimad Ramayanam shows the way. Even if our opponent is much inferior to us in
status, rank or strength, we should never insult him-"na shatru: avamantavya:
durbalopi baleeyasa"
And one who knows right and wrong would never harm adversaries, who are not of
sound mind, who are sleeping, who have lost their mount in battle and stand
unarmed on the ground, those who are terrified, those belonging to the fairer
sex and children, says Srimad Bhaagavatam-
'Mattam pramattam unmattam suptam baalam striyam jadam
Prapannam viratham bheetam na hanti ripum dharmavit"
It is this cardinal principle that Sri Raghava was demonstrating, when He
refused to kill Ravana, who stood on ground, his chariot destroyed and deprived
of his weapons. Sri Rama's immortal words, "Indru poi naalai vaa", (Go today
with your life and limb safe and return tomorrow for battle, duly armed and
mounted) addressed to the unarmed but unrepentant adversary whom He could have
killed instantly with ease and with a single arrow, are lessons to us never to
take advantage of an enemy's moment of weakness or helplessness. Sri Rama's
battle was fought strictly according to Dharma, without any resort to
subterfuge, dishonesty or needing recourse to that oft-abused maxim, "All is
fair in love and war"
How do you turn sworn enemies into bosom friends? The Taittireeya Upanishad has
an extremely practical solution-just give your foes what they want, and they
will be friends ever after. Generosity and magnanimity are sure cures for any
sort of enmity, avers the Upanishad-
"Daanena dvishanto mitraa: bhavanti"
What happens when your sworn enemy runs into great trouble and practically
falls at your feet, seeking protection and succour? Do you gloat over his
misfortune and tell the hapless man to go to hell, or, worse, do you seize him
by the neck and punish him to your heart's content? Neither, we are told, again
by Srimad Ramayanam. Here is a story recounted by none other than Sri Rama, to
emphasize that even our worst enemy, if he seeks our protection, should be
treated with due courtesy and afforded all assistance. This is the quintessence
of the Doctrine of Surrender, explains Sri Raghava to Sugreeva and other
vaanaras, who express themselves against affording refuge to Sri Vibheeshana of
the enemy camp.
The rain was coming down in torrents. A sharp wind was whistling through the
dense forest, chilling everyone to the morrow. The night's darkness added to
the woes of the hunter, who could hardly lay his hands on even an ant,
throughout the damp day. He was drenched to the skin, blue with cold and his
innards were being gnawed by intense hunger. Desperately searching for
something to eat, he let out a whoop of joy when he found a female dove lying
unconscious beneath a tree, obviously having met with an accident while
returning home to its mate. The hunter put the dove in his cage and went about
looking for something to make a fire with, for preparing his meal as well as to
dry his weary and cold bones.
His limbs shaking with cold, the hunter sought refuge under a tree, which
coincidentally happened to be the home of the captured female dove. The male
bird, peering out of the tree-top nest anxiously for its missing mate, found
her in the hunter's cage and began to abuse him. However, the female dove
hushed its partner, pointing out that though their natural enemy, the hunter
had sought refuge in their tree home and that it was their bounden duty to be
of all assistance to him. Reminded of its obligation as a host, the male bird
arranged for dry twigs and brushwood from its own nest, had a fire going within
a short time and invited the hunter to dry himself in the fire. And in a
supreme gesture of sacrifice, it fell into the fire, requesting the hunter to
partake of its cooked flesh.
"When even a dove could respond in such a magnificent fashion, sacrificing its
life for the sake of its wife's abductor, should I not, as a descendant of the
famed Ikshvaaku Vamsam, offer protection to Vibheeshna?" enquires Sri Raghava
of the Vaanara Veeras. If a person comes to you with folded hands, obviously in
need of succour, even if he is your worst enemy guilty of having mortally
wronged you, you should afford him protection and all possible aid, says Sri
Raghunandana-
"Baddaanjali putam deenam yaachantam sharanaagatam
Na hanyaat aanrisamsyaarttham api shatrum Parantapa!".
Protecting an enemy who surrenders is not only the done thing for the wise, but
if not done, would attract great sin, points out the Prince of Ayodhya-"Evam
dosho mahaan atra prapannaanaam arakshane".
Not only does Sri Raghava afford protection to Vibheeshana from the enemy camp,
He is prepared to offer "abhayam" to even Ravana, the dastardly abductor of His
beloved Consort, should the rakshasa wish it-"Vibheeshano vaa Sugreeva! Yadi
vaa Ravana: svayam". It is this magnanimity of the Paramapurusha that comforts
us, for, we too are no mean offenders.
It takes a broad mind to praise your foe-even if he is the repository of all
virtues, you find it difficult to utter a good word about him, the enmity
rankling in your mind preventing you from honest appreciation. All you have for
him are the choicest words of invective. This, however, is not the case with
Ravana-he is generous enough to praise his adversary, even though He is
tormenting Ravana in battle. The glory of Sri Rama is such that even His sworn
foes have only paeans of praise for Him. Here are the glorious words of Ravana,
paying handsome tribute to Raghunandana's bravery and His ability to capture
the hearts of onlookers-
"Shatro: prakhyaata veeryasya ranjaneeyasya vikramai:
pasyato yuddha lubdhoham krita: kaa purushastvaya"
Knowing full well the glory of the Lord, would anyone, least of all those close
to Him, voluntarily seek enmity with Him? And that too, not for one single
birth, but for three consecutive janmas? This is what Jaya and Vijaya, the
gatekeepers of Emperuman at Vishnulokam, did. In their anxiety to zealously
guard the Lord and His privacy, when they prevented a Maharshi from walking
straight into the Lord's quarters, they were cursed by the enraged sage to a
sojourn on earth, losing their exalted position as Dwaarapaalakas. Despairing
at the severity of the punishment, that of being away from their beloved Lord,
when the keepers of the Lord's gates represented to the Maharshi, they were
given a choice-Be born for a hundred births as devotees of the Lord, or just
three as His enemies. Unable to tolerate a long separation from their Master,
the gatekeepers chose to be born just thrice, even though it meant their being
inimical to Emperuman. Thus were born the pairs of Rakshasas/Asuras-Hiranya and
Hiranyaaksha, Ravana and Kumbhakarna and Sisupaala and Dantavaktra-all of whom
led apparent lives of antagonism to the Lord and met their ends at His hands,
returning to a blissful reunion with their Divine Master.
Apart from the aforesaid pair of asuras who became the Lord's enemy by their
own choice, does Emperuman have anybody whom He can rightfully call His
enemies, despite their being His own progeny? Yes, indeed, and it is none other
than ourselves. We are guilty of the greatest sin, that of "Aatma apahaaram" or
stealing the soul. Though the soul and all else belongs rightfully to the Lord,
due to our pride and possessiveness, we consider our soul to be our very own,
independent and free to act as we please. And even when the Lord, the rightful
owner, demands the soul back, we turn our faces away and assert our
independence. When He says, "Tvam Me" ("You are mine"), we resist and say "Aham
me" ("I am my own"). We constantly indulge in all sorts of acts inimical to the
Lord, habitually disobeying His dicta, forgetting the Shruti warning that none
is powerful enough to militate against Him-"Brahmanaa ka: arhati spardhitum".
By virtue of all these acts of omission and commission, the Lord ought to treat
us as His enemies and deal with us accordingly. However, His boundless
compassion and mercy prompt Him to overlook most of our misdemeanours and
constantly strive to wean us away from the path of perdition we insist on
treading. And true to His own words as Sri Rama, whatever be the quantum or
gravity of our offences, He readily pardons us once we bow before Him with
folded hands, performing Saranagati.
Srimate Sri LakshmiNrisimha divya paduka sevaka SrivanSatakopa Sri Narayana
Yatindra Mahadesikaya nama:
dasan, sadagopan
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