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Hare Krishna.

 

Dear Sri Vaishnavas,

 

Adiyen's Pranamam to all of you.

 

Most of us are aware of the very difficult situation we are facing in finding suitable alliances. There are so many reasons for this tough position faced by parents of boys & girls.Parents of sons & daughters with advancing  ages are in utter despair.

 

In this situation, we are shocked to see that some untoward happenenings,when the marriages get very much delayed. From the present trend, it can be inferred that it will become very difficult to find s suitable brides / bridegrooms in the not  too distant  future and also end up in more and more of our children marrying  anyone,  as it happens now.

 

Instead of allowing the situation from worsening, a timely action, though belated, is urgently needed.

 

We ara all followers of Swami Ramanuja and call ourselves as Ramanuja Dasas. Anyone who accepts Bagavad Ramanuja as their Supreme Acharya are to be revered   &  accepted as our kith and kin.

 

Will some people who have broad vision and interested in securing the preservation , protection and promotion of our Sath Sampradayam, take the lead in counselling and convincing that all the subsects among the Iyengars should join hands to encourage and promote alliances without subsect  restriction ?

 

We have moved with time in many walks of life in adapting changes

and marriage alliances should not be an exception.

 

It is very common now to see Iyengars getting married to other Brahmin sects   and  even othe communities and religions, That being the case, will it not be the right and wise thing to do our best in getting rid of the subsect problem among Iyengars in arranging suitable alliances.

 

It is a loud thought from me,as may be the case with many others, who are witnessing the difficulties faced by the parents of Srivaishnava Brahmin Brides & Bridegrooms in fixing suitable alliances to reduce the difficulties faced .

 

An open discussion may enlighten many and take us towards a possible solution to ease the situation.

 

 In fact our  Acharyas & Greatmen doing  yeoman service to our community, can

 play a very great  & positive role in this serious & urgent problem faced by Srivaishnavas as a whole.

 

Let no one get offended  for  our opening this topic, which has been due to our witnessing the enormous problems faced by our community in the matter of marriage alliances, especially the parents.

 

Regards / Good Wishes.

 

Adiyen Sri Ramanuja Dasan,

 

Kombur Vankeepuram Madhavan.

 

Please Help The Needy as it is Service To God.

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Oppiliappan Koil Varadachari Sadagopan
http://www.sadagopan.org




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