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Dear friend,

Very interesting posting! Your problem is quite a common one in the 
world. Based on what you have written, you would be well advised to 
do either of the following: 

(a) use all the 'help' you say you usually extend to others for your 
own sake and benefit. There will be no need then to go back to your 
friends looking for return favours.

or,

(b) change your friends,

Rgds,

dAsan,
Sudarshan


--- In SriRangaSri@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx, "Sreenivas" <sreenivas_r@xxxx> 
wrote:
> Hi All,
> 
> I am a person who never has any ulterior motives while helping 
others. I
> have helped lot of people throught my life. They were transformed 
from None
> to something in their thought process. They have reached to some 
extent of
> thinking which is helpful for their day-to-day works. The people 
whom I have
> transformed into this state started questioning me and never care 
or even
> have the thankfulness in their mind. On couple of instances when I 
have
> needed some basic help, these people started telling stories rather 
thought
> how they can help me back. I normally look for help at the 
convience of the
> people I ask, rather than ask them at my convienence.
> After encountering couple of instances like these, somehow I have 
started
> developing to stop any kind of "out of the way help" which I have 
been doing
> so far and now. So could any one suggest me how do I need to handle 
these
> kind of situations.
> I have not done any help expecting a help from others in the 
future. But
> when I needed a help and it is a dire need, if these guys don't 
come in
> handy, I feel upset. So please let me where I need to tweek my 
thought
> process.
> 
> Thanks
> 
> Satya





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